Are you referring to me? None of what you suggested will fix his 1-2 shift and Dex 6 is totally unnecessary in a TH350, was engineered for later transmissions with different friction compositions which won't be applicable for these older units.
The kick down cable controls, well "kick down", aka downshifting. Not upshifting and he never mentioned anything about a no-upshift condition (usually from 2nd to 3rd) which would be present if there's a problem the detent system. The vacuum modulator controls part throttle upshift and the adjustment is subtle, nothing like the mechanical recalibration for the 1-2 shift he needs to perform. Sure, he can replace it and the modulator and the filter and perform a general service but none of those things will fix a super-hard 1-2 shift that he's experiencing by taking a transmission mechanically calibrated for a high-stall application in a completely different vehicle and running a stock converter in his truck.
How many TH350s have you built and for what applications?
You're welcome...Speedo drive and driven gear will need to be swapped out; the driven gear just slips into the housing but the drive gear is held onto the output shaft in a quasi-press fit so you'll need a puller of sorts to remove it then you can use a pipe of the appropriate diameter and soft dead-blow hammer to tap on the new gear.
TCI's drive/driven gear calculator can help you determine the number of teeth you need for each.
let me know when you've had a chance to inspect the 1-2 accumulator housing...There may be either no spring present or a broken spring which is fairly common in these transmissions, especially when behind high horsepower/torque engines.