@SirRobyn0, My trailer weighs 2,000lbs empty and I am estimating that it will be about 5k loaded. I put a 6k axle on it, but I think it unlikely that I will ever load it that heavy. It is my welding rig, so it will have a pretty much always be fully loaded.
My wheels are 15in.
Thank you for the explanation on the EGR and ESC that really clears things up. I am going to leave both of them alone and try rebuilding my Qjet again, see if I can make it work.
I can definitely devote a few days to swaping the gears, just wanted to be sure that I wasn't being arrogant thinking I could do it.
At this point I will Probably try to find a heavier duty truck for my main driver, and set my square body up as a backup.