@SirRobyn0 Glad to hear you're seeing some improvement. After making sure your aim is as dead nuts as you can get it, I think err... almost know you'll see a big improvement after installing relays... incandescent/halogen bulb output drops rapidly with lower voltage, and stock wiring is pretty gimpy. Without knowing exactly what kind of drop you're seeing, I'ma guess you'll get at least 30-40% more punch after correcting that, and probably more. It will make the light appear a bit whiter, too, and not as dingy and brown.
Phillips Extreme Vision are one of the better bulb choices out there. The Sylvania Silverstars are pretty typical of bulbs with blue tinted envelopes... the blue tint takes away quite a bit of output, so they drive the filaments harder to make up for that, and bulb life takes a big hit. Once you bring the operating voltage up, they will burn out even faster. Stock or high luminance bulbs with no tint won't last as long, either, but the life won't be impacted as much as with blue bulbs.
Top of bumper should be a decent height for frog lights. I've only mounted a set of aircraft landing lights down low, and they created a lot of shadows on undulating roads, and also seemed to be magnets for rock holes. It's good that you're seeing well enough to not need to use auxiliary lamps to try to fill in for sucky low beams... you probably won't use fog lights all that much, but they are handy to have for extra sh¡tty driving conditions.