In all fairness... sometimes we think it doesn't need to be said, but it does. Use concentrate antifreeze and mix 50/50 with distilled water or use the pre-diluted. Never use tap water to dilute your coolant.
The grounding and corrosion issue will show itself more if you are using tap water instead of distilled.
Eric is absolutely right about this, I still think that if it was a coolant issue or ground / electrolysis issue that it would be showing up in other places besides the back of his water pumps, but you never know. Seriously, though Mike and I just made a pool joke out of coolant your tap water does matter, if your using city water there are all kinds of additives in the water from chlorine to fluoride, and if your on a well if your water is hard or has a lot of iron in it that's definitely bad, hard water will leave deposits in your cooling system, and acidic water can do damage, but it's usually done over time. The shop I work at is on city water so we buy only pre-mixed, on the farm the water is hard, but I prefer to buy concentrate and use distilled water.
I think the take away is to get another water pump, try to make sure it is of good quality (you can run brand names past us your looking at) and make sure you do everything correctly with the coolant and you should be good to go.