Like I said above, you've messed with a bunch of stuff trying to get it to start.
I would suggest go back to the beginning and methodically check it all mechanically to verify decent mechanical installation and close enough timing.
I really appreciate everybody's advice and believe I'm checking it methodically. It seems like I set the timing "close enough"
1. The vacuum advance canister hose is unhooked and vacuum plug installed on carb.
2. I did turn the idle mixture screws all the way in lightly seated and then backed both out 2 full turns ( they were 1.5 turns out of the box. so far this is the only adjustment done to the new carb).
3. I went back through and checked all vacuum lines, checked pcv valve, and checked gaskets under the carb. Everything looks good.
Some of the recommendations above cannot be done yet since I can't get it running close enough to a decent idle to do it.
I ordered a tdc tool to verify the mark on balancer is correct. I was thinking just now that maybe the plugs are fouled from all of this.
So I guess my game plan is to check the harmonic balancer mark and check the plugs, maybe just replace them.
If I don't get it going soon I will have to pull some things apart and check mechanical items like valves. I know it might sound like it but this isn't my first time installing a distributor and setting timing. I've never had an issue and am stumped.