Odd is another class act I see.
Well since it seems to be getting misinterpreted by a few people I'm going to say that since the OP has a good sense of humor and we've traded jokes before it was supposed to be taken lightly. If the OP didn't see it that way I apologise. It was not my intent to insult and I probably should have used one of these.
Unlike some of the commenters I've read this thread from the beginning, several times in fact. It's difficult to follow for a number of reasons. Forums mostly communicate with written words and we can all see how that can go wrong.
I'm having a lot of trouble following the multiple problems and what happened when and I think that it would help us help her if the descriptions are clear and organized so we have an understanding of the symptoms and history. Like HRPC said it's not about being the grammar and spelling police, I'm just trying to get some focus because the discussion is very scattered.
And last, if one thinks someone has said something inappropriate there's a lot more appropriate ways of saying that than calling them names.