A chevy small block in good condition will run all day long at 2700 rpm without doing any damage. My concern on that issue would be gas mileage, not engine wear. (given that the engine is in good condition.) However, a ring/pinion change would be the least expensive way of lowering highway rpm, but you won't see a lot of RPM difference (at 55 MPH,) between 3:42 and 3:73 gear sets. If your goal is lower RPM at 55 MPH, 3:08's are the ticket, but you are going to lose some low end power. It's a compromise. Hope that helps.
illmanners