This is how I’ve always wired the window pair of relays. Not my drawing, was sent to me years ago. So unsure of who to give actual credit to.
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Remember when power is supplied to one side of the motor, the other wire is the ground, hence the reason they are wired this way
If relay 1 is down, it window switch is toggled to lower the window, power will come from the switch to relay 1 terminal 85, which activates the relay, basically pushing the lever from term 87a to term 87, which directs 12v from the junction block to the motor.
Relay 2 is not activated so term 30 goes to 87a which is ground, so it completes the circuit.
Let off the window switch, both go to ground, stopping the motor.
If you then want to go up, power from the switch is sent to relay 2, supplying power to the other side of the motor, with relay 1 now being the ground side