Your buddy went way Eastern OK. Not far from the Ft. Smith, AR border. I have a step bro that lives that way. Some of the country folk "Go to the City" as in OKC City or Tulsa for their big events, buy cars, better medical care etc, where he lives they do go to Ft. Smith for their big events like concerts, night on the town or monthly grocery shopping.
I left Cali in December of 90 at age 24 2 months of being 25 and came to OKC since my mother and brothers lived here for several years after my parents divorced. I tried my ass off in So Cali and wanted to be a homeowner. That wasn't going to happen in So Cali. I couldn't even buy a 700sq ft dump in So Cali. 18 months later at 25.5 years old I bought my first 1450 sq foot modern brick house and been here since for almost 28 years.