So ignore that junkyard guy. Even if you find an axle an it needs some work its still cheaper than buying a crate one from currie. I didnt do anything to my axle but freshen up the brakes, pop in some new axle seals an change the gear oil out. I mean think about it, outside of abusing them how many people have trouble from an axle. Id say it will be more rare to find one that is busted than one in working order.
On the drive shaft you should be ok. I didnt have to do anything with mine. Worst case you put a shim in to add to the pinion angle. Probably won't need that though.
Mine is a 78 an my setup came from porterbuilt. I don't recommend it.
You are right about the store employees I'm sure. You gotta call the tech support line. They transferred me to the guys that knew a lot about that kit. It wound up being like 45 min call with wait time an all but the guy I finally got to knew his stuff.