One is black with white stripe, other is brown , kind of a darker brown than a tan
I'm LMAO because I'm severely red/green color deficient - I can only reliably discern the colors blue and yellow. Everything else is pretty much a grayish beige color. Oh yeah, I can see black, white and silver.
Anyway, trust me - those are the wires that are discussed above. When I say blk/wht that means a black wire with a white tracer (or stripe as you say).
As far as the brown lead; when he was just a little wire living and in the GM assembly plant, he was probably a lighter tan color. But, after 30 years, he's going to look older. It's inevitable that living your entire life in an engine compartment is going to take it's toll.
Seriously, exposure to the elements under the hood (heat/grime/exhaust fumes etc.) will cause any wiring insulation to become darker over time. I bet if you traced the tan - now brown - lead back into the cab, where none of those elements are present, you'd find that it is still tan and clean.
If you want to be sure, unplug the harness connector from the ECM (pull the bigger of the two plugs). Find the 413 tan lead where it connects at row D pin 6. Connect your meter with one probe to a good ground and the other to the 413 tan pin at D-6. Set the meter to continuity (audible feature). Go into the engine compartment where the mystery double wire terminal is.
Touch the common ring terminal to a good clean spot on the engine. If the tan wire (the O2 reference leg ground) at D-6 is the same one that is connected to the ring terminal, the meter will beep when the ring terminal is grounded. If it doesn't beep, I'm wrong and you will have to keep looking.