to say that a high spring rate causes said spring to not oscillate is simply not true. if you want to get into the physics the equation for a simple harmonic oscillator (spring) is frequency= .5pi*sqrt(k/mass) where k is the spring constant. this equation shows that a stiffer spring will oscillate faster, but not necessarily less. however, sure it is harder to compress. but, other things constant, if you dropped 2 trucks without shocks, with completely different springs from the same height, they would bounce to the EXACT same height. i agree you are correct that leaf springs are not perfect though. and oh sure mine are very stiff. i can barely get it to move. but imagine hitting a large bump without shocks, the spring does compress a fair bit, and think of the potential energy! i have driven without my rear shocks for a while and it did get bouncy back there....
but really enough of the nonsense about shocks, i think we can agree the OP's ride problem is stiff springs right?
by the way i really do not intend to be a pain, i just think i should contribute what knowledge i can, even if it opposes what someone else says in order for us collectively to find the right answer. thats what these forums are about right?