Are you using the standard in-radiator cooler, or a separate trans cooler?
For a truck driven like a passenger car (very little load), you can use just about any cooler, but if you plan to tow or haul with it I highly recommend a new stacked plate cooler.
My favorite is the Long Low Pressure Drop (LPD) cooler in the largest they have available (24k lb rating, etc.). Then hard mount it with metal brackets so it does not touch the radiator. The LPD unit uses a passive temp sensor to control flow so that it limits flow when the transmission is cold, and then allows max flow when it warms up.
http://www.trucool.com/products/tru-cool-lpd
If you look at the B&M coolers I believe the high capacity units are a repackaged Long cooler. Ford's OEM coolers used to also be the same design, but I haven't checked them lately.
Bruce