Ok I think it's a combination of me not conveyed my thoughts good enough, as well as the fact that anywhere I've ever looked for wheels, the backspacing was listed as well. Often with no offset listing.
Here's how I look at it:
The allowable backspacing is known. Then I decide how wide I want the look of the wheel to be, which then determines how wide and tall of a tire I can run. OR, I know what tire size I would like to run and then choose a wheel width that will allow it to fit. I never run a wheel with less backspacing than there needs to be in order to meet my goals of tire fitment and looks. Wide wheels stick out, narrow ones should not, imho.
So let's say I'm looking at wheels that are 18x8, 18x9 and 18x10. There's no need to do offset math when comparing them, not only among those sizes, but among various brands where offset and backspacing may be different even within the same wheel width sizes. It's way more cut and dry to look at the backspacing spec. You can see the 5.5" (for example) backspacing spec and instantly determine that it ain't gonna work. Or you can look at the offset spec, then do math to figure out the same answer.