Thanks brother. Suggestion on tires? The ones on my rig are oversized. The previous owner put 18" wheels on it. I'm fairly certain these tires are 35's
Maybe a slightly wider tire that is a 33?
Can't say. What size are they? Probably a "metric" size? 285/75-18 or something like that? The first number is your section width, sidewall to sidewall in mm. The second number is the "aspect ratio", basically your sidewall height. In my example, your sidewall is 75% as tall as the tire is wide, or 0.75x285=213mm or so. 25.4mm to an inch, so a sidewall height of 8.38in. Twice that plus the rim diameter..... overall diameter of 34.75in. That's just as an example though, in case you weren't sure how all that worked. You can do the math to get a ROUGH idea.
Then you start looking at wheels, and you need to understand the difference between "offset" and "backspacing". That's where your issues with "stance" really come into play.
My point though, is even in the SAME size tire, different brands and styles will have a different profile. They'll be the same size, but maybe not look like it. A/Ts and M/Ts usually having a more aggressive profile, they LOOK wider. More square shoulder and all that.
If it were me.... it'd be new wheels and tires time. I HATE the 20s that came on the wife's new rig. HATE them. They won't be long for this world. lol Her goal is a dually conversion though.... so my wallet will be bleeding for sure. YOUR best bet, might be to find a good tire guy/shop, that can get what you want, and is happy to mount something up to test fit on your rig, so you can SEE how they look. Or find something you really like on someone elses truck, and just copy that.